October 27, 2018

Real Talk: What Do You Look For in a Partner?

Hey Y'all! Real Talk is back so let's get right into it!

Ok so real talk, What do you look for in a partner?

This is a question that single people around the world ponder over when they are searching for bae. One thinks of what type of person their ideal partner would be as well as what are their deal breakers. Is it their physical appearance, is it their character, is it their education, is it their cultural background, is it their financial situation...what exactly is it!...


Whatever your criteria is, I think the most important thing is to be realistic. But at the same time, I don't knock others down for the standards and criteria they have set for a partner even if they seem very superficial. To each their own, so if your aiming very high speak it into existence!! You never know, you might just meet that person. 

I have spoken my own out ohhhh, so just patiently waiting for it to manifest! 😂Jokes!

Seriously though, no one is perfect, we all know this. Consequently, your potential partner will not tick off all the boxes in your vision of the perfect partner. The question then becomes, what requirements are you willing to let go or compromise on? I mean, I can let go of or compromise on less important things, however I strongly believe in never settling, lowering your standards or drastically changing yourself to meet another persons needs. Mama didn't raise no fool! LOL!

The struggle is real y'all!

So real talk, what are your thoughts? Comment below and let me know!

P.S. Will be hosting a speed dating event soon, so start prepering the important criteria you partner needs to meet so that you are ready when the time comes lol. Stay tuned to the blog for more info on this event soon!